A few weeks ago, I came across and interesting article about things mentally strong people do that no one else does. It intrigued me because I’m immersed in a year that’s requiring a lot of mental and emotional strength. But as I was reading the article I was struck by how many of the 12 points listed also applied to my writing life, not just my family life.
For example, among the twelve points listed, the first one is practicing gratitude. I’ve been doing this as a writer from the day I sold my first piece back in 1983. I’ve enjoyed many moments of gratitude since then and have managed to acquire some of the other points on the Entrepreneur article list.
For example, mentally strong people create their own definition of success, delay gratification, don’t blame others, adopt practical optimism, acknowledge their limitations, and don’t compare themselves to others.
I can’t claim to have conquered all points listed. I still have trouble saying no, I still let my inner critic vocalize too much, and I still let fear get in the way of going all out in certain aspects of my career. But I’m working on it.
One of the things I’ve learned after nearly forty years of writing is that I’m stronger than I thought I was, and I have something to share with newer writers just starting out. And that means a lot.
If you’re interested in reading all twelve points listed in the Entrepreneur article, you can find it HERE.
I think these points can apply to people who are more than just mentally strong.
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Yes, I think you’re right. They likely share other attributes as well.
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This is a great list and one we can all use as a reminder. I too need to practice saying no. I’m getting better at it.
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So far this month, I haven’t gotten better at it. Oh well, there’s less going on in the summer, so I can get a little more rest then.
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Interesting post and interesting points made. I know I need to work harder on gratitude.
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Thanks for commenting. I know we all have something we need to work on 🙂
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A fascinating article, Debra and I can see how this can be extended to various elements in our lives. This is the second time this week I have read about success, and how important it is to create one’s own definition of the term and not be influenced by others. The other post about success was a poem which can be read here … https://mywindow.blog/2019/05/28/s-u-c-c-e-s-s/
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As I get older, I’ve come to believe that success is one of those things that shouldn’t be defined for us, but by ourselves, for ourselves. Thanks for the link, Annika! I like the poem.
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