It’s always a struggle for writers to juggle family life and day jobs with their creative lives. In fact, most of us don’t spend nearly as much writing/editing time as we’d like for numerous reasons, although this past week I came close.
I’m one of those weird folks who actually likes Mondays because that’s when I’m at my most energetic. Mondays means that I can get a fair bit of writing and editing done before and after the day job. On a really good day, I’ll then put in a half hour on the treadmill while catching up on reading. Yeah, I’ve been a multi-tasker for years.
By Wednesday afternoon, my energy level seriously fades. Thursday’s often a struggle to write, and Friday’s almost a complete write-off when it comes to stamina and concentration. Usually I can squeeze a little more writing time in on the weekends, but this past weekend was different.
A few weeks ago, I volunteered our house for my daughter’s bridal shower. Given that this is summer, I figured we’d have a dozen guests at most. My task was to clean the house and provide platters for the food that the bridesmaids were bringing. I spent most of Saturday and early Sunday, cleaning the two bathrooms, tidying, dusting, etc. while my hubby and son swept the patio, cleaned the outdoor table, moved the BBQs out of the way and arranged furniture.
Once the bridesmaids arrived, I watched in awe as they brewed jugs of different flavored teas, laid out food, decorated, and arranged flowers with an efficiency that had me in awe. As you’ll see from the photo, my twelve guest estimate pretty much doubled in size. (I’m in the blue dress in the front row, my daughter to the left, and my sister on the right.)
The shower was great fun and the bridesmaids were just as efficient with the cleanup and take-down as they were in setting things up. By the time every had left by 4:30, though, I was exhausted. My plans to do a little more editing that evening fizzled away.
Still, a good week of editing, followed by awesome family time, could be considered a balanced week. The only problem was that none of us felt rested by Monday morning. That’s okay, I have major rest and relaxation planned for this upcoming long weekend.
By the way, the delicious lemon cake in the photo was hand made by one of the bridesmaids. She brought fresh flowers to decorate the cake with! She also made a cheesecake with blueberry sauce, and earl grey cookies, which were amazing. As her wedding gift, she’s making the wedding cake, along with cupcakes. Now that I’m totally in wedding mode, I can’t wait for the big event in September.
How wonderful! So glad it was such a success for all of you!
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Thanks, Julie. I was a little worried about having enough chairs, but Elida’s team of bridesmaids brought extra stools. They thought of everything 🙂
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lemon cake and cheesecake!
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I know, right? Can’t wait to see what she does for the wedding. I’m hearing rumors about red velvet 🙂
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Savour all the…. moments (or the food!)
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Thanks! I plan to!!
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Sounds like it was worth any amount of distraction! Beautiful!
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Definitely!
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I’m pleased to hear that another person likes Mondays as well. Everyone at work used to think I was weird. But it is a new start and I always had more energy on Monday! The shower looks like a huge success and the cake looks amazing!
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Thank you, Darlene. You’re one of the few people I know who likes Mondays. Today’s Thursday, and it was so hard to get out of bed. Energy dropping like a stone. Oh well, the weekend’s nearly here 🙂
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I’m like you….I love Mondays. Tuesday I’m also good and Wednesday I start to slow down and yearn to mix with humans again (other than my husband and Little Miss Eight). By Thursday I’m wishing it was Monday again!
I enjoy Earl Grey tea so I’m interested in trying Earl Grey cookies. Never heard of them. 🤔
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Yes, the cookies are unique, I think this was the young lady’s own recipe. She’s an aspiring baker who hopes to create a business one day. Thanks for dropping by, and commenting 🙂
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